Just to amuse myself in this post I will come out with the reasons they SO long for.
WHY AM I STILL NOT PREGNANT?
- My husband and I dated for a short while before we got married so we wanna have a year or two to ourselves
- We are both doing our part-time masters and we wanna concentrate doing one thing at a time :)
- Our future baby hates competition - with everyone popping out babies this year, we'd like to do it when they are done having theirs. Our baby will get ALL THE ATTENTION when the right time comes :))
We wanna be financially ready first(cliche sgt yg ni!)
- HMMM.....ERRMMM....out of ideas already...*sigh*
A few days ago I was at my mum-in-law's. They have this helper who comes in daily to help with the house work. And so far, every time she sees me she seems to be more concerned about whether or not I am pregnant rather than how I am. The most recent that annoyed the hell out of me was her comment, "Oh, takde rezeki lagi....kesian...." KESIAN? What? Do I need sympathy? Am I deprived of living because I am not pregnant yet? Seriously, what the....? But she's just a helper, not any member of the family (Thank God for that) and she's not in any way significant to me so I'll let it go but that did disturb me. Even kids are asking the same question - but...they are kids. Honestly, I dunno how I am going to handle this raya if we are still not pregnant by then.